or; thanks for the title, BlueDev
I've been thinking a lot lately about how I can change my life and make myself a better person. (I know, you may be thinking to yourself, “What the crap?” but I just want to make some changes.)
At any rate, I've been pondering why I argue and how I can debate more effectively. And it occurred to me – the problem is that, once I resort to name calling, any argument – no matter how important it might be – loses all validity once the mudslinging begins.
This is true of a lot of us, I fear. Once we start “flinging the poo” (as my brother likes to call it) we lose all moral high ground. And everyone is guilty of it at times.
Think about it – the liberals call the conservatives “Nazis” or “Hitlers” or any other number of fascist epithets. The conservatives, in turn, call the liberals “pinkos” or “commies.” Once those names start flying, we lose all strength in argument.
Christians call atheists “god haters.” Atheists call Christians “insipid.”
There's tons of other names that are flung about as well, even within the groups that we ourselves espouse. And what does it serve us? It simply alienates the other side all the more, and drives wedges through any semblance of understanding and growth.
So go ahead, JU, keep flinging the poo. I don't care; just know that you lose validity and your argument loses force once you start throwing names around. (This includes calling the other side stupid, moronic, idiotic, etc.) I'm not going to stop liking you – because there are some pretty cool people out there that are famous for calling names – but I will probably steer clear of your thread.
And if any of y'all see me flinging the poo, make sure that you remind me about this.